Tim Miner's Musings

It's good to be yourself at all times, in all situations. Acting yourself consciously, without compromising your demeanor, you make things move (happen) around you, you triumph! Being unconventional & rebellious...without following the crowd! That way, u make a niche, you portray your uniqueness unmatched . Not bowing to external pressures, saying 'NO!' with a deep conviction...sticking to your guns, without being snobbish! & more importantly, being loving, caring, honest, generous, kind, calm & respectful without looking like a 'softie'! Consider this: AGGRESSIVE APPROACH : Characterized by being offensive, rough, angry & blaming. The person using this approach, usually shouts, glares, clenches his fist...he hurts & makes enemies! Unfortunately, many parents, teachers & other adults use this approach when dealing with young people. Bullies & bossy people, find it 'useful' to shove people around. PASSIVE A

...I don't know what induced me to notice her at all...or was it him? There are faces that call your attention by a curious want of definiteness in their whole aspect, as, walking in a mist, you peer attentively at a vague shape which, after all, may be a signpost. ~Joseph Conrad. And definitely it was...so vague and huge...oh! what a sight!